Despite the fact that it happened again, I can't really say I regret giving him a second chance. 2.5 years later I caught him doing something similar with another out-of-state friend, and that was when I ended our marriage. He wanted to work things out, and I decided to give him another chance.
I found he was having an internet affair with a coworker (in another state, so I believe it was not physical though who knows). I went through something similar with my XH. And counseling can help you figure that out. You just have to do what's right for you. As others have said, you don't have to make a decision right now. I know what a gut punch it is to find that sort of thing out. I just hate the thought of starting over. The house is in my name and I have my own car so I have that going for me. I am the breadwinner and have no problem surviving on my own without him financially. Is making an appointment with a marriage counselor even worth it at this point? He sees a psychiatrist every 3-6 months or so for depression and anxiety and said he would make an appointment ASAP. He claims he “wanted to tell me for so long” but I’m not stupid. I don’t know what I want or if this relationship is worth trying to save. He swears that he has never “physically” cheated but how can I believe him? When I went to settings to make it so I could block messages that’s when I found the pictures, phone call logs, etc. A few chat notifications popped up but I thought they were just spam. I had no idea he was even using Skype until I logged into his Microsoft account on our computer to try to download a game for our son. We shared passwords to emails, Facebook, phone passcodes, etc.
I work night shift as a nurse so he has been doing this while I am at work.īefore this I never felt I had a reason to not trust him. I thought of him as my best friend and now I don’t think I can ever trust him again. I am so angry, embarrassed, and just plain devastated. This has been going on for at least 2 years - that is as far back as the messages would go so who knows if it has been longer than that. I found out last evening that my husband of 8 yrs (together for 10) has been using Skype to chat, make phone calls, and send naked pictures to both men and women online.
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